Yes, It’s true, and I actually think that most men would agree with me.
Guess what ladies? Men are simple, and by simple I mean feed them, fuck them, and tell them how wonderful they are. It’s that easy.
The problem with us women is that we think that we can change them from who they are to what we think they need to be. I hate to be the one to tell you this, but you’re digging a grave for your relationship if that’s what you’re trying to do.
Think about this; why on earth would you get into a relationship and fall in love with a guy for who he is, and then try to change him into something else? That doesn’t even make sense if you think about it. If you insist on doing this you’re going to drive him away from you, plain and simple. He doesn’t want to change. He’s a man. That’s takes way to much energy and don’t you ladies want that energy saved for between the sheets?
Picture this…a man meets a woman, they fall in love, they get married. She lets him be the man she fell in love with, and they live happily ever after.
Picture this…a man meets a woman, they fall in love, they get married. She starts to bitch at him, nitpicking at everything he does. She stops being the woman he fell in love with and becomes a bitch. She quits having sex with him. She quits touching him and telling him positive things. He, starts to feel inadequate and less of a man and finds someone who will make him feel like she used to. He has an affair, they divorce.
Of course these aren’t always accurately true, but the majority of the time it’s some sort of these two basic stories.
To have a happy life you need a happy wife they say, but I disagree. It’s a two way street. Both need to be happy. This will depend a lot on the communication within the marriage. Communication is key to any relationship period. If you don’t have it, it won’t work.
In closing, be loving and kind to each other. Talk to each other. Love each other and never forget why you fell in love with each other in the first place.
It really is that simple, just like a man.
Until next time…
