Trisha's Thoughts

A Few Things I’ve Learned Along The Way That You Should Know

Don’t ever think that you are better than somebody, because there is always someone better than you…..

Don’t ever think you are the perfect parent, cause I guarantee and know, that there is no such thing…..

Don’t ever think that your kids are perfect, because everything you did behind your parents backs that you used to do, I guarantee that they are doing it as well to you…..

Don’t ever think that your way of doing business is the right way.  It may be for you, but it’s probably not for someone else…..

Don’t ever put down your child’s other parent if you are divorced, (or not divorced), it will only hurt your relationship in the long run with your child and you…..

Don’t hate Arab’s becuase you are ignorant and think that all Arab’s are Muslims…..I guarantee that all Arab’s are not Muslim’s…..learn about a culture before you decide to hate a culture…..

Don’t do everything for your child, it only teaches them to be spoiled rotten and makes them become childish adults…..

Don’t ever think that you are so beautiful that everyone should be at your beck and call…..I guarantee with an attitude like that Karma will come back to bite you hard…..beauty will fade and your attitude will become even worse because of your vanity…..

Always Forgive…..I know for a fact that when you do that you will feel so much better because  the healing will have begun…..

Smile more…..not only will it make you look beautiful, but when someone hates you the smile makes them hate you even more…..

Don’t worry about what people think of you so much…..you’ll drive yourself crazy if you do…..I guarantee that the people who really care about what you look like, what you’re wearing, what kind of car you are driving, etc. are also the people who are talking about you behind your back because they are unhappy with themselves and honestly really don’t care about you at all…..

Don’t think that that secret you just told someone is going to stay a secret for very long…..that someone has a friend just like them that can keep a secret just as well, and so on…..

Just because you think that someone has it all, doesn’t mean that they really do…..I guarantee that that person thinks that there is something still missing in their lives…..

Guilt is something that I don’t think that we ever truly get over…..but you have to channel it and not let it eat you up inside…..

When you truly love someone, you never try to change or control that person…..you accept the way that they are and you love them unconditionally…..

Quit putting your drama on Facebook…..nobody really cares and people will contemplate un-friending you just so they don’t have to read about it any more…..time to grow up and do something about it……

Get rid of any drama in your life by not allowing drama into it…..don’t do things to stir up confrontations…..people don’t like people who always have trouble in their lives…..it’s easier to be happy than it is to be unhappy…..you just have to choose to be that way, and fix what is making you unhappy…..see?  Simple…..

Remember that you aren’t perfect…..if you were then we would call you God and worship you…..

So those are some things that I’ve learned along the way……there are plenty more and will post more later, but I’ve got to run for now.

Until next time…..

 

 

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2 Comments

  1. Amen sweetie! I sure do love you!

  2. I loved that, looking forward to reading more,

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